A good friend of mine once said: "Never confuse surrender with giving up. Giving up is what the ego does when it does not get its way; surrender is what the intelligent soul does who understands the true nature of the universe ..."
The only thing that we can be sure of is change; the longer we hold onto the status quo, the longer we try and control the environment and other people, the bigger the overwhelming realisation that it is indeed exhausting work to keep everything the same, to stem the tide and flow of life.
Let go. Surrender to what is. Surrender the the beautiful, intelligent design that is the love of the Universe. There is perfect order. Do not let the illusion of chaos fool you; there is indeed intelligence behind everything that happens - and for that matter - everything that does not happen.